10:10am 4/22/15

I don't understand (but i do), why some people even after they've made their choices and have gone on living life and have everything,or at least have enough and have themselves, would still want someone who has done nothing but good and brought positivity into their lives, to still be hung up on them. If you claim to love or even care about someone , don't you want the best for them even when its not you, especially when it is not you by your own choice? Why would you want them pining after you, still living a life that revolves around you? If you care about someone but you know you cant or just wont follow through with actions that promote their well being and mental state wouldn't you want them to find who or what can? I have been in this situation and although I loved the person as a human, I knew I was not in love. Although, it was nice to have someone consistently caring for me and wanting to be together, I knew that they deserved better, so I let them go, because I knew they were deserving of someone who would reciprocate the kind of love that they desired. Isn't that what you do for someone that you care about? But I do understand that is not what selfish people do. People who know they've had something special but had and have no intentions of ever taking care of it. People whose world solely revolves around themselves. They will create a whole life outside of you and then still try to take yours. Some people want to use you up and leave you with nothing. They'll even allow you to lose yourself if you let them.